TEEBILLZ & TIWA ALLEGED MARITAL BLOWS...
Please Pray for them if you can; If you can't...then leave them alone: I read today the alleged outpouring of Mr Tunji "Teebillz" Balogun about the cracks in his two and half year marriage to Mavin first lady Tiwa Savage;which was said to be denied later.
And the whole issue was blamed on internet hackers which was also supposedly denied. However, what baffles me is the level of attack, mockery, mudslinging & tantrums many have started throwing
at him,Tiwa, or both of them; the cruel manner in which many have judged them without having the details of the true position of things. While it's true that there's no smoke without fire; but as someone who has been privileged of God to have listened to harrowing experiences of what couples go through in marriage for more than 17 years now; ranging from infidelity, infertility, money matter third-party influence, in-laws, insecurity, career challenges, unhealthy spouse and/or children, separation due to inter & intra cross-border & nations' distance, and so on.
People, the worst evil anyone could go through in life or even even wish his enemy is separation..and/or divorce. When God emphasized in His word that He hates divorce; really, (Malachi 2:16) He knew what He was saying. I always ask folks who may wanna take sides to stop for one moment and ask themselves...
Do you think 2 adults, who consciously, deliberately took decisions to leave every other potential suitors, (Man or Woman) and chose each other among many arrays available to them at such a time, wouldn't have had one, two, or few things that attracted them to such person; and makes him/her to be the preferred among all? Of course there would be; and that's why we all should always focus and
fight to standstill...WHAT IS WRONG... AND NOT WHO IS WRONG AT FIRST....Now, after we have successfully identified what is wrong, treat and +cure it; we may now find out who is wrong; in order not to actually apportion blame, but to help prevent future re-occurrence. John Maxwell says in his book "Failing Forward" that in life sometimes you win, and sometimes you learn.
So please, ladies and gentlemen, trust me, those 2 people are undergoing probably the most severe test of their lives right now; the outcome of how they handle it unfortunately will not affect just the two of them, but so many people that's related to them directly or indirectly....and for a long time; some probably FOREVER.
While we thank God for the lives of the likes of Paul Okoye, Banky Wellington, & one Mr. Chukwuma Ani, whom we read pulled Mr. Balogun back from jumping off a Lekki-Ikoyi bridge; and prevented what could have turned out to be a sad phenomenon in Nigerian entertainment circles,
may the lord keep and bless your own families sirs.
People, i will stop here by counseling us to please pray for these 2 people and make them a point of contact for hundreds of thousands of couples going through similar situation; for quick, & divine intervention, forgiveness from both parties toward each other, healing and renewal for progress and peace in their homes.
.And he arose, and he rebuked the wind, and he said to the sea, peace be still. And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm...Mark 4:39. Lord, let the storms in Mr & Mrs Tunji & Tiwa Balogun's home (and others in similar situation) be calmed, let the wind cease and let there be peace...And let the people say...Amen!
Written by Anthony Olusola Fabunmi
Anthony Olusola Fabunmi.... is a Teacher, An Inspirational Speaker, and a Pastor. He's a Professor in the fields of Environmental Biology, Pharmaceutical Microbiology, and Biotechnology. He's also a Public Speaker & Commentator, A Businessman, He's best-selling Author, and most recently a Humanitarian. He's based in New York, NY and Houston, TX from where he coordinates the multi-faceted entities & organizations.
Please Pray for them if you can; If you can't...then leave them alone: I read today the alleged outpouring of Mr Tunji "Teebillz" Balogun about the cracks in his two and half year marriage to Mavin first lady Tiwa Savage;which was said to be denied later.
And the whole issue was blamed on internet hackers which was also supposedly denied. However, what baffles me is the level of attack, mockery, mudslinging & tantrums many have started throwing
at him,Tiwa, or both of them; the cruel manner in which many have judged them without having the details of the true position of things. While it's true that there's no smoke without fire; but as someone who has been privileged of God to have listened to harrowing experiences of what couples go through in marriage for more than 17 years now; ranging from infidelity, infertility, money matter third-party influence, in-laws, insecurity, career challenges, unhealthy spouse and/or children, separation due to inter & intra cross-border & nations' distance, and so on.
People, the worst evil anyone could go through in life or even even wish his enemy is separation..and/or divorce. When God emphasized in His word that He hates divorce; really, (Malachi 2:16) He knew what He was saying. I always ask folks who may wanna take sides to stop for one moment and ask themselves...
Do you think 2 adults, who consciously, deliberately took decisions to leave every other potential suitors, (Man or Woman) and chose each other among many arrays available to them at such a time, wouldn't have had one, two, or few things that attracted them to such person; and makes him/her to be the preferred among all? Of course there would be; and that's why we all should always focus and
fight to standstill...WHAT IS WRONG... AND NOT WHO IS WRONG AT FIRST....Now, after we have successfully identified what is wrong, treat and +cure it; we may now find out who is wrong; in order not to actually apportion blame, but to help prevent future re-occurrence. John Maxwell says in his book "Failing Forward" that in life sometimes you win, and sometimes you learn.
So please, ladies and gentlemen, trust me, those 2 people are undergoing probably the most severe test of their lives right now; the outcome of how they handle it unfortunately will not affect just the two of them, but so many people that's related to them directly or indirectly....and for a long time; some probably FOREVER.
While we thank God for the lives of the likes of Paul Okoye, Banky Wellington, & one Mr. Chukwuma Ani, whom we read pulled Mr. Balogun back from jumping off a Lekki-Ikoyi bridge; and prevented what could have turned out to be a sad phenomenon in Nigerian entertainment circles,
may the lord keep and bless your own families sirs.
People, i will stop here by counseling us to please pray for these 2 people and make them a point of contact for hundreds of thousands of couples going through similar situation; for quick, & divine intervention, forgiveness from both parties toward each other, healing and renewal for progress and peace in their homes.
.And he arose, and he rebuked the wind, and he said to the sea, peace be still. And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm...Mark 4:39. Lord, let the storms in Mr & Mrs Tunji & Tiwa Balogun's home (and others in similar situation) be calmed, let the wind cease and let there be peace...And let the people say...Amen!
Written by Anthony Olusola Fabunmi
Anthony Olusola Fabunmi.... is a Teacher, An Inspirational Speaker, and a Pastor. He's a Professor in the fields of Environmental Biology, Pharmaceutical Microbiology, and Biotechnology. He's also a Public Speaker & Commentator, A Businessman, He's best-selling Author, and most recently a Humanitarian. He's based in New York, NY and Houston, TX from where he coordinates the multi-faceted entities & organizations.
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