Saturday Musings: I woke up this morning, after my unwavering time out with my Father of all Fathers, and decided to watch the Tiwa expose, whilst seeping my hot cup of 'pick me up' coffee (yes ke! At this point in life am allowed a few ME time ππ)
Hmm! Am always sad when I hear of broken marriages - so sad it's not the best because I have been there and I know all about the different emotions that flow with the before and after! Not the best but sometimes for sanity, it is the best option to bow out!
The issues Tiwa mentioned are all fool-proof actions and attitude that is guaranteed to break a marriage! There is emotional, mental. psychological, financial and physical abuse - all combined and that definitely can break anyone. Some manage to stay despite all but it leads to two things:
1). A complete destruction of the person's persona, depression and breeding of kids who will grow to be dysfunctional adults; or
2). Death - either self-inflected or murdered by the spouse!
There are mistakes people make when getting married and that is confusing friendship, best left in that category; and desire, wrapped in a flimsy tissue of love.
Some see signs of possible incompatibility, recognise it but believe they can wade through! Some don't even recognize the signs and live in the moment of enjoyment until after marriage when the bubble bursts! Some don't even see any sign because the other partner is verse in duplicity and act of camouflage until the prize is got and then guards are let down - then you wonder who you got married to! A Dr Jerkle and Mr Hyde situation!